According to etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore, there is no standard dollar amount for wedding gifts, and the right amount is personal and should reflect one’s relationship with the couple and their budget. Whitmore advises considering travel expenses and financial circumstances when deciding what to give, and a smaller cash gift or gift card is acceptable if one can’t afford a large amount. The gesture matters more than the dollar amount, and a thoughtful note can make a modest gift feel more personal. Guests should avoid comparing their gift to others and keep gift-giving private.

Originally reported by Yahoo.