Some couples’ wedding day behaviors may signal trouble in their marriage. Reddit users shared stories of weddings where they noticed red flags, such as a groom too absorbed in texting to acknowledge guests, a bride’s condescending behavior towards her partner, or a groom’s dismissive comments about his partner’s family. These behaviors often occurred in conjunction with other warning signs, such as lavish but potentially unaffordable weddings or a groom’s lack of interest in his partner. Some users noted that these red flags can be indicative of deeper issues in the relationship.

Originally reported by BuzzFeed.