A woman, whose fiancé is getting married next spring, is feeling overwhelmed by her parents’ generosity and meddling in the wedding planning process. Her mother has been vetoing her choices, including the venue and florist, and making decisions without her input. The woman’s fiancé and mother are essentially co-deciding the wedding, leaving the woman feeling like it’s not her day. The advice columnist suggests sitting down with her mother to establish boundaries and decision-making power.

Originally reported by Creators Syndicate.